ended up getting the 5100 series bilstein shocks and steering damper. I will be installing in a week or two... waiting for the snow to leave! yes snow up here! if anyone wants to know how they feel i will let ya know. I also purchased rear coils to convert the rear air to coils.

 

recently replace all shocks and steering dampener with the bilstein 5160 series. ride is truly awesome, responsive and not rough at all. I do tow and 4x4 as often as I can get away from the city but the ride is not harsh.